Those in the know … know that I rarely make it out in public, unless I’m going to work, or presenting as male (which helps for anxiety, but does the opposite for my dysphoria)....

I don’t often do #transformationtuesday posts … for various stupid reasons that make sense in my head. Thank you to @rawjewlz for the nomination to do this #blackandwhite post to say #transwomanarewoman and #transisbeautiful and #transrightsarehumanrights … did I forget any tags? In sunny #transgendersouthafrica we are often...

There be good daysAnd there be bad days,Only thing you need decidingIs how many of them good days you wantingFor them bad days, are entirely under your controlHow we process the world around us,...

I ain’t happy, I’m feeling glad I got sunshine in a bag I’m useless, but not for long The future is coming on Artist: GorillazAlbum: Clint Eastwood The future is coming on. Slowly. But...

I am not an activist. I literally avoid topics that may cause someone to object or lash out. And thus I never express my own opinion on critical issues. I tell myself it’s because...

In the beginning … I struggled to see her. I knew she was inside, but I just could not see her in the mirror at all.14 April was one year since I removed my...

I’ve kept to a routine as much as possible. Even though I’m ‘lucky’ enough to be able to work from home during #lockdown … I have consistently ensured that my attire resembles someone at the office....

Every day is an opportunity to express yourself. #lockdown is no different. I’m not doing it for them, I’m doing it for me. No audience required.

Most people want the #lockdown to end now. So they can get out of their prisons. Physically connect with people again. Be with people. As prisons go … this ain’t bad though. I’m free from the...

I’m overweight. I’m lazy. I love food … and sweets … chocolate… cake… did I mention chocolate? And sweets. And hot dogs. Burgers. Pasta. And I’ve never loved my face as much as I...