Born 16397 days ago..<– a lot of shit happened between here and here –>..Found myself 642 days agoHRT for 100 days… and in 40 days I turn 45yo Life seems fleeting when you look...

Sometimes … nothing you do feels right. From the moment you wake up, every action seems forced and wrong. Every comment or inquiry puts you on defense. Every criticism makes you vow to never...

As 2020 draws to a close, it’s important to reflect on what you have achieved this year. In 2020 I became more comfortable in my skin, even pre-HRT, and for the first time was...

I’ve had this damned topper since October this year. I bought it for the photo shoot on our anniversary, but last minute decided not to wear it as it just didn’t look right to...

Life before me … is nothing like life after I found me! Today I walked into a Social Worker’s office with my wife (part of our multitude of interviews to adopt) and immediately the...

Today my wife and I celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary. You don’t realize what a big deal it is, until you look at the divorce rates, especially in the LGBTQ+ community. My biggest fear...

Since coming out in April 2019 to a very select group, my life has changed drastically. All the fears, anxiety and panic that held me back seems like long forgotten memories now. Never could...

Look 👀 in the mirror … Perhaps the biggest tragedy for me personally is my hair loss. It seriously does not fit into my journey or self image. So this past weekend I took...