Finding Community

Started research into SRS (Sexual Reassignment Surgery) last night, joining a voice chat on Transvengers Discord. It’s actually amazing how […]

Day 662 – New Milestone

Days since birth: 16417Days since coming out: 662Days on HRT: 120Days until next birthday: 20 After 120 days on HRT, […]

Life 2.0 – Day 642

Born 16397 days ago..<– a lot of shit happened between here and here –>..Found myself 642 days agoHRT for 100 […]

Stop overthinking it!

Sometimes … nothing you do feels right. From the moment you wake up, every action seems forced and wrong. Every […]


As 2020 draws to a close, it’s important to reflect on what you have achieved this year. In 2020 I […]

To mask or not to mask

I don’t know you. I don’t know if your heart is pure or blacked with hate. I don’t know if […]

Top of the toppers

I’ve had this damned topper since October this year. I bought it for the photo shoot on our anniversary, but […]

Life before me …

Life before me … is nothing like life after I found me! Today I walked into a Social Worker’s office […]

21 years in the making

Today my wife and I celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary. You don’t realize what a big deal it is, until […]

Day 509 – the journey to date

Since coming out in April 2019 to a very select group, my life has changed drastically. All the fears, anxiety […]

Let’s talk Pronouns

pronoun /ˈprəʊnaʊn/ noun plural noun: pronouns a word that can function as a noun phrase used by itself and that […]

Let’s talk Demi.

We’ve talked Demisexual before, but I wanted to branch out to the other (even lesser known) Demi’s out there. There’s […]

Let’s talk Purpose.

Operation: Iris is back today! 💕🌈🌸 We talked about a lot in the last Operation: Iris post. So much so […]